Tuesday July 24
A few introductory notes:
1. I rented a car for my whole stay this time. Thanks to my friend and teacher, Mordechai Rackover, I learned this spring that there were great deals on rental cars via Orbitz.com with Budget here in Israel. I am paying $65 a week, or essentially $9.50 a day for a Hyundai Accent (here called the i25). It is a comfortable, neon green, 4 door sedan that despite the layer of dust because of the construction on our street, I have yet to lose in a parking lot.
One must be brave, slightly aggressive and willing to use the horn as a communication device to drive here. While aggressive is not generally my attitude, I put it on like a comfortable sweater when I am here, and take a few days to let go of it when I get back to Rockville. I drove Wednesday night in Abu Ghosh, and I wasn't sure I was going to make it out of there.
2. Steve's flexible view of tradition and halacha:
I know during the 9 days many traditional Jews of which I sometimes consider myself one, abstain from both meat and wine. I love, yea crave both of those nourishing substances and rationalize that my summer pilgrimage to Israel and the mitzvot that I am privileged to fulfill here trumps this traditional sign of mourning (plus, it seems silly to mourn for a city as thriving, vibrant and full of construction projects as Jerusalem). I will observe Tisha B'Av, but I can't say I'm campaigning for the the rebuilding of the Temple. I'm more in the mode of campaigning for the Return of Norman's Steak and Burger to Emek Refayim (bimheira b'yameinu, speedily in our day, Amen). I will now report, in part, on some wine and meat events that occurred, along with two Mitzvah related events, in recent days. If this will offend you, you can stop reading here.
3. If you have read the book, The Tipping Point, you will recognize the concept that I consider myself (and am considered by some others as) a connector. This is important to understanding Tuesday's meeting.
Tuesday
Tuesday was the date for a long-planned for meeting at the Yemin Orde Youth village in the Carmel, in the midst of the zone affected by the fire of 2010, just south of Haifa. Yemin Orde, founded in memory of British General Orde Wingate in 1953, is a residential religious school that has helped with absorbing new olim, particularly high school students who were orphaned post World War II, or who otherwise came to Israel without parents. The 300+ students now in residence (their capacity was reduced by the fires last year from around 500) are primarily Ethiopian, Russian and Brazilian. The school is co-ed. Many of the teens are at risk, come from difficult family situations.
Let me be clear. Yemin Orde is not a beneficiary of Mitzvah Heroes Fund, they have their own development staff, and I do not know enough about them to recommend them as a beneficiary for anyone's tzedaka money. I'm not saying they're not worthy; I'm saying I don't know, and haven't looked into it. It is a big operation, spreading now over various campuses in the Galil, it gets government funding as well as many donations from abroad, but at least for now, supporting them financially is not an interest of mine.
I went to Yemin Orde as an educator. I met the director emeritus, Dr. Chaim Peri during a recent visit to the DC area, heard him speak, and wanted more time with him (and he was very generous). He wrote a book, The Village Way, available at Amazon, which I read over the Shavuot holiday, and I was impressed by his empathy, philosophy, clarity and tone. The book describes the model of an Israeli youth village, raising children without the [you fill in the blank - assistance of, interference of, support of, love of or the term of your choice] parents. I have spent most of my life, even my time as an attorney, working at least part time with teens. The book spoke to me.
We have a Mitzvah hero, Robbie Sassoon, a social worker by training, that has, for the past 2.5 years, been running the non-profit, Crossroads, in downtown Jerusalem. Crossroads reaches out to primarily Anglo (English speaking) teens in downtown Jerusalem who are just hanging out, getting into trouble, homeless, dropouts, into drugs and goes out to the streets to help them, engage them and runs a clubhouse where they can hang out. learn skills, participate in art therapy programs, get their GED, practice for the SAT, write a resume - all important life skills to get their acts together. I thought, as a connector, that it would be cool for me to connect Robbie and Chaim, who work with similar youth in very different settings (both in Israel) and they were mostly unaware of each other, so I set up the meeting and I took Robbie with me.
Chaim was not feeling well, but he spent about 45 minutes with us. The we had lunch with Itai, a teacher and Dr. Benny Fisher, the new director, and talked about Crossroads, Yemin Orde and things they could do with each other, for each other and maybe share some acquired knowledge and experience. I went without an agenda, without expected outcomes, more or less to make some introductions to see if it would lead anywhere. Could Yemin Orde host Crossroads for a shabbaton, weekday getaway or staff training? I don't know, but these were the kinds of ideas that we share during our 3 hours in the village.
As we were leaving, we were only about 20 minutes from zichron Yaakov, so we decided to make a stop at the Carmel winery (Robbie sniffed and listened, I tasted). Let me say that I don't know how Carmel has managed to hire the most knowledgeable and
friendly people in the whole country to come work for them, but if I make
aliyah, I hope they will hire me as well.
On Tuesday I had called Ruthi Ben Israel (who hosted the JEA group at the winery in February) to say I was in Israel, and that I
had a meeting Wednesday at Yemin Orde in the Carmel, and would she be
around if I wanted to bring a friend to visit the winery. She knew
exactly who I was, remembered my visit in February and was sad she
wouldn't be there, but she would put me in touch with Valerie, who would
be at the winery on Wednesday.
Before I could even call on Wednesday, Valerie called me, checked my
schedule against hers, and we decided on a time for me to visit with Robbie. We visited, and
again, I felt like a guest in Valerie's home. There were only two of
us, but we got the royal treatment and I truly feel like a ben bayit of
Carmel; I have become a loyal customer and I'm telling everyone. The wines are delicious. We tasted a lovely Riesling, a great light chardonnay, not too oakey at all, a Carignan and an amazing Kayoumi Cabernet Sauvignon. I was blown away. We drove back, stopping for gas, and I took Robbie all the way home and got me meet Jenny, and his 3 kids. Disappointingly, Doron's was out of shwarma when I got there, but the schnitzel was as good as ever. Another successful day in the holy land. I was going to include Wednesday's adventures in this post, but this is already a long read, so I'll break it into another post.